Rabu, 07 Juni 2023

Fear of Abandonment

Age is unpredictable.

Who would have thought that now we are still breathing but in a minute the breath will no longer be ours?

All of us in this world are just travelers who must be aware that our final destination is not here, we are just hitchhiking and being given a ride by the Owner of life.

That's an ideal thought. However, nothing ideal is destined to happen in this world. The people we care about will leave one by one from our presence, either choosing to leave to love others or going back to the lap of the Owner of the breath of life. But the opportunity for each traveler is different. Therefore, every second that is still owned, use it as if we already know that the next minute will not be ours anymore.


Carpe diem!


For the travelers who left this wandering first, tell the Owner of the breath how much we also miss our time with Him. However, if we can choose, may we decide when to return to Him? That time was when we were the first to be summoned among those we cared about. The reason is just because we hate shedding tears and we are afraid of being left behind.

Indeed, it seems selfish, but it's just a request that should be allowed if it pleases.

But even if not, give us full awareness that we too will leave this world one day, because we still lack such awareness and even the fear of loss is greater than the awareness of loss itself.